For Women Wanting to Deepen Their Intimacy and Pleasure
Navigating the waters of desire and intimacy can sometimes feel like reading a map without a compass. This conversational online Playshop is your compass, designed specifically for women who wish to explore their intimacy, enhance their sexual pleasure, and communicate their needs and desires more effectively with their partners.
The Secret to Successful Dating and Long-Lasting Relationships For Women and Men
Flirting is more about energy, a vibe, a feeling!
It's a way to create a sense of fun, excitement, intrigue and more importantly, it's a way to communicate your fondness or romantic interest to a person you are drawn to, even your long-term partner. Yes, the spark doesn't just survive on love and fresh air people!
Flirting is also how you can create playful engaging ways to explore the compatability of someone new you may be dating or considering as a romantic partner.
Come and explore ways to create your own unique magnetism when it comes attracting someone you fancy.
Learn How to Navigate Online Dating For All Adult Ages, Genders and Orientations
The truth is, dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Grindr, Happn etc, are useful for broadening your possibilities, no matter whether you are looking for something long-term, something serious or you're craving a casual dalliance.
This online Playshop will help you swipe into exciting new territory, according to your desired destination of sauciness. There are all types of people online looking for all types of experiences, so having the right magnetic frequency is key.
Attraction... For Members of the LGBTQIA+ Community
Let's face it. Love and Attraction are a complex sea to navigate for any human being, nevermind for a person who is embracing all the diverse colours of their personal expression.
No matter whether you are very sure or somewhat confused, or are currently experimenting with your own sexuality and intimacy expression, there are key elements to attraction that can help you find your way.
Learn How to Better Identify Men with High Integrity - For Women
A woman is the gatekeeper of her intimate world but may find herself with a man who isn't who she thought he was. What happened? Did he change? Was he always that way? How did she miss the signs? Which is the man and which is the mask? Most importantly, what do you actually view as being high-value in a man?
A powerful solution to this problem, is to develop a keener sense of how to trust your intuition and how to read the unconscious 95% of what most people are actually telling you.
You can book your own bespoke Playshop for yourself 1:1 or for you and your partner. I also host group Playshops for organisations and for businesses.
1:1 Sessions
Couple Sessions
Playshops for Groups
Playshops for Your Business
Get in touch to explore ways we can tailor make an experience to help demystify taboo topics and to empower you in the realms of relationships, intimacy and attraction. Enhancing these skills has a positive effect on different aspects of your life. From romantic partnerships to friends, family and even your career.
Welcome to a heart-led space, dedicated to helping make your romantic life more fun, more safe, more saucy and more satisfying.
If you are single and struggling with dating. If you are in a relationship and struggling with your partner or if you have intimacy issues, or no sex/intimacy in your relationship... you have come to the right place.
We are wonderfully complex beings but there is a Matrix running within us all, the unconscious mind and that is where I operate. Real change from within you.
Come play!
Custom Coaching Sessions:
I work with groups, with couples or work 1:1 to go even deeper, allowing for more privacy.
Please email me on ryan@attraxionplayhouse.com to book a free discovery call and chat about how I can address your needs.
Who is The Attraxion Playhouse for?
Singles - Couples - Women - Men - LGBTQIA+
All sexual orientations, all genders and non binary people are welcome in The Attraxion Playhouse.
All Playshops are conducted in English.
If you have any questions, you are welcome to email me.
I look forward to connecting with you soon.
Ryan xo
The Soul Mechanic✨
Ryan Koriya, aka The Soul Mechanic is a neurodivergent charismatic dating, relationship and intimacy coach who has been organically helping bridge the gap between the sexes for over two decades. He has been empowering women and men using an accessible, conscious and personalised approach.
Often drawing from his keen intuition, accumulated knowledge, years of experience and his education in fields such as relationship psychology, human behaviour, integrative hypnosis, public speaking, acting, all the way to branding, marketing, self development, spirituality and energy modalities.
"Literally the world around me was full of potential but I was like a camera with a lens cap on, basically doing nothing. Days turned into months and months turned into years. Before I knew it, I was a 27 years old virgin man, struggling with life and unfortunately struggling to make friends or any sort of new friendship. The loneliness just seemed to be my way of life at this point.
No partner and definitely not sexually active. Watching all my friends flourishing around me in relationships and marriages, I felt this void would never truly be filled for me. I knew where I stood and I knew what could be achieved but I frustratingly couldn't see the steps to get there!
This is the stuff I began to learn with Ryan. Having zero sexual experience at my age, it was refreshing to hear from a trusted source and not the stuff we think is correct, such as pornographic content and unfortunately still, many unhealthy cultural norms. Learning how to effectively communicate better with the opposite sex is such an important and yet underrated skill. As a man, learning not to pretend to be something you are not, trying to portray this façade you think someone will love and accept. Having respect for myself too.
The way you treat yourself and carry yourself will set the tone for how people treat you.
I began to believe in myself and started to understand the ways of handling my emotions. Also starting to realize I can't control the actions of others and that truly I could only control mine. And that's what I needed to do.
I can recall one incident where a female friend of mine saw me walking across the street as she was driving. She pulled over to offer me a lift but I ran away, yes literally ran away! I know that raises so many questions, and frankly speaking, it happened so involuntarily. Yes, there was no threat or danger to my life or well-being in that moment. So what made me do that?!
Eventually I did find myself in a situation where I could progress and make a decent connection with a woman I met on a dating app. That led to me finally 'losing my virginity,' as they say. Interesting experience to say the least. It was surprisingly calmer than I expected it to be, but overall it was a good first time and she also had positive things to say, as if I'm a veteran at this! I'm grateful for the guidance I received beforehand as I have heard some first times don't go so well and lead to instant regret. Thank you for lifting me up from the murky depths of self doubt. I am now a different man!"
Leo, University Student, 2022
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A Couple's Strong Positive Modelling of Masculinity
"My partner and I had been struggling to work through some recurring issues by ourselves for quite some time and knew we needed some pragmatic, solution-based support to move forward. I've always been quite hesitant about working with male coaches or therapists, never really quite feeling comfortable with them, but Ryan has so much warmth about him, I was surprised to notice how safe I felt during our initial conversation before the session. Wonderfully, my partner felt the same.
We both noted how he has a really safe, nurturing and loving masculine energy which neither of us had really encountered in many men in our lives. For my partner, this created a feeling of a strong positive modelling of masculinity that he'd not had in his own life and for me, Ryan's ability to hold space with a combination of strength, gentleness and boundaries dissolved my usual mistrust of men which has also been core to some of our issues.
We both quite enjoyed filling out the short form he sent us beforehand, and though it felt like he really took the time to get to know us before diving in to exploring solutions, the first session alone gave us alot of insights and we left feeling resourced around next steps. He validated our respective experiences and even whilst recognising where we might be going wrong, acknowledged each of our reasons for doing so in a way that felt loving and relatable, never judgemental or accusatory.
Ultimately, working with Ryan felt like hanging out over a glass of wine with a really wise, lovely friend who had both of our best interests at heart and wants to see us succeed.
I can't recommend him highly enough!"
Stephanie, Life Coach, 2023
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Saved From Falling into Other Toxic Situations
"Through Ryan’s mentoring I have learned how to not take things personally, which has been a big problem for me in the past. I have given myself a hard time when a guy has shut down a relationship, backed off or walked away because of their own issues but they have also projected their issues onto me! Learning about projection was vital because people can project without even realising what they’re doing, and this is toxic!
With Ryan’s wise guidance I was able to see the light and recognise that I was doing all I could in my relationship and that my partner (at the time) would not meet me in the middle!
I felt supported and encouraged by Ryan’s mentoring, he views a situation from the outside, he looks closely, investigates and then explains what is happening. Being able to turn to Ryan has saved me from falling into other toxic situations.
Ryan understands that every individual is different, everyone has different perceptions of what love is and how they approach finding meaningful relationships. How important communication is and discussing exactly what a person wants first, before anything can happen! Through Ryan’s guidance, I have been able to understand that what people want must be respected and that it is just different from what we want sometimes, and there is no point in pushing someone to be something, or to want the same as you, when clearly, they do not!
Be that confident person, know your worth and know what you want and move forward, keep your options open and you’ll know when you’ve found that true love, if that’s what you desire!"
